- Talk to your friend and be nonjudgmental when discussing
the abuse
- Listen to your friend and believe him/her
- Let your friend know that violence under any circumstance
is unacceptable
- Express your understanding, care, concern, and support
- Point out your friend’s strengths. He/she may not see
his/her own abilities and gifts because of being blinded by
the effects of the abuse
- Encourage your friend to confide in a trusted adult. Offer
to go with him/her for help
- Talk to a trusted adult if you believe your friend’s situation
is getting worse
- Help your friend by suggesting a counselor or an advisor
you trust
- Never put yourself in a dangerous situation by being a
mediator
- Call the police if you witness an assault
- Read articles or books that could help you or your friend
